Cocaine Addiction: Cocaine Facts

Question: Cocaine addiction and respect?

(Posted by: Alicia27 on 2009-10-05 05:01:00)

I have been seeing a guy on and off for 10 months he is addicted to cocaine but wont admit it the signs are all there disapearing , sweating, grinding teeth , weight loss sexual dysfunction He seems to have no repect for anyone or anything including me he constatly lies and manipulates . I have told him to leave me alone as i cannot deal with being 2nd best He told me he hates himself and told me never to touch coke because it messes your life up one week he loves me the next im nothing he critcises me and makes me feel used . Lately he seems to be getting deeper into it he never has any money and when he gets paid he dispears on binges and im left at home like a fool. He says he loves me but i dont belive him despite him coming back to me the fact he lies about it to me and himself and seems to have no respect for me standin by and trying to help him What do i do? he starts thinking hes better than me and he has experinced pyscosis which really scares me

Posted by: ExplicitSmex on 2009-10-05, 05:11:50

Leave him for your own good. Don't play the fool ever! This guy is obviously no good. I know love can be a powerful thing but sometimes you have to think of your well-being. Have one more final try. Give him an intervention with everyone who loves him and pay to send him to rehab if he does take the gift, then cut him out of life forever which means not returning his calls,not opening the door, completely cut contact. That is the best thing you can do for him and yourself. He will only drag you down, there is no point.

Posted by: LillyB on 2009-10-05, 05:12:04

LOL so he has no respect for himself or for you!! You have no self respect!! Why give this man permission to treat you so badly? You don't have a relationship so get out now and find someone who can have a relationship with you.

Posted by: chevvyl on 2009-10-05, 05:17:14

Surely commonsense tells you to get far away from this druggie, before he drags you into the gutter with him. How anyone can stay in the same room with a self-centred immature idiot that is slowly killing himself, is beyond me. If you think you can change him your wasting your time. Have more respect for yourself instead of being a doormat.

Posted by: wondering on 2009-10-05, 07:20:43

READ THIS PLEASE i {{use}} to be a user years ago.30yrs ago i{use} to do for 3yrs $100.00 per day habit. there's 2 saying i want to share with you 1st one' nothing matter's nothing at all but a glass pipe and a little white ball . i use to free baste that means to smoke it. 2nd saying my personal is.. you suck satan in your soul and once he has you he'll never let go'. well you can make him let go im living proof.. any way's he probably love's you madly [[i usely don't swear but}}when your on that s**t nothing matter's not even you own life. and f**k everyone else NOW what you need to do for you . you totally love him or you would not of put up with him this long. you need to find an A.A. meeting or a cocaine anonymous or a alcohol anonymous tell them that you don't drink or drug but you have a family member that does you DO NOT GIVE HIS NAME TO ANYONE!!! DO IT NOW! you might be able to find it in your local phone book most likely will! as for his part, he has to want to quit. nothing you can do, and he has to do it for himself. not for you, or anyone else. sorry! but if he don't he'll never stay clean. he has to get sick and tired of being sick .all the stuff you said about him in your question is very true . and it can get worse he might die if he don't stop SORRY but true good luck god bless